This is the centuries old Men vs Women problem!
Or – to be more correct – the male energy versus the female energy. Because Many women have done exactly the same thing.
A perfect example of this strategy is the History of Royal/Aristocratic Marriages. They were and still are always decided on “power.”
Who is the richest/most connected/most famous/most powerful family from which to select a spouse.
No love involved just a fertile “other” and plenty of ready cash.
Wallis Simpson famously said – “You can NEVER be too thin or too rich.” She went for a King-to-be and looked what happened there!
Mata Hari gave herself to all the richest, most famous and powerful men she could find and ended up facing a Firing Squad!
What’s LOVE got to do with it?
Everything.
Today people go for the most subs and lovey-dovey comments. That is the New Power Game.
It’s called being Addicted To (Fake) Love or CO-DEPENDENCY.
So many people lack the ability to self-validate/have faith in their own actions/believe that they are “good enough”/crave outside validation/public recognition/the Total Respect of others/Blind and Unquestioning Followers/Constant Propping and Boosting of their Ego/Mass Adoration and Worship.
Correct me if I’m wrong – but we are all HUMAN not gods.
We are all perfectly imperfect. We are ALL VULNERABLE & Fragile at times and Every Body Hurts, sometimes.
Get Over IT!