So much emphasis is put on those Hit&Quit men who leave a woman pregnant with their child and refuse to take ANY responsibility.

But what about those women who use “the system” to deny the father of their children all rights of access?

Spending so many years around the military I saw both sides of this story. But when I see women who have had children by a man, children who know their Dad and love him, separate Father and Child – it breaks my heart.

We have a friend who is in exactly this position. He has a new partner now who loves and supports him but he is denied ALL access to his children.

We also have a friend whose ex landed their “problem” child on his Dad and has refused to help in any way, shape or form. He’s YOUR son. Deal with him!

Fathers 4 Justice helped change some laws in the UK several years ago.

Excuse ME but – children are not Tally Sticks or Bartering Tools or Objects to Use to Threaten/Blackmail another.

#Disgusted :o(