Sis-in-law worked for many years in Care Homes. She was the BOSS and regulated the drugs.
We got into a cond-ver-sation about what MJ was addicted to. Something like co-codamine or anti-floxy-mean or super-duper-keto-mean.
Anyhoo.
Men who constantly fluff their hair are an IMMEDIATE turn off to me. FACT.
They look like a lost, empty soul in search of a mirror to tell them just how manly and handsome they are. In my opinion.